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A Bicycle Helmet saved Skylar

 Yesterday afternoon, while Skylar was out riding his bike through our city, he wrecked. But, he didn't just wreck, we don't know what happened. 

We get a text that he had wrecked and needed to be picked up. Thinking it was just a bike crash and he didn't want to ride home because of bruised feelings and scrapes, we asked where he was. He said, "At the end of the street." Meaning, our street we live on. The Mr. and I both looked at each other thought, 'what the heck?!' 

After walking to the end of the street we realized, this was more than just a simply bike crash, something had happened. 

He was pretty beat up and his helmet was cracked, his bike bent and scraped up, and he couldn't remember what had happened. 

I was immediately pissed. The Mr. and I came to the conclusion that he needed to go to the hospital ASAP!


Our city has an Urgent Care and we took him there. Assuming they would just patch him up and "possibly" need to patch him up with some stitches, but it was much worse than we had suspected. 

The doctor on call checked his bangs and bruises out and cleaned him up, but also determined that he had a concussion, and told us that we weren't the first people to come in Urgent Care with a similar story. The others that had come in had been hit by a car. I was livid! How dare someone hit my baby and drive away, leaving him in the street. I asked if there were police needing to be involved, but because of the hit and run, there was nothing we could really do other than report it. Which, we did.  

Needless to say, he was right, nothing could be done other than ask neighbors if they had doorbell cameras, saw anything, or security footage that faced the street-there was nothing. Someone had hit my child, drove off, and sadly, he remembers nothing from that day. My heart sank.

The city we live in doesn't take to bike riders all that well, for whatever reason. We know the risks when we ride our bikes here, and this isn't the first time a member of our "family" has been hit by a car. The Mr. was hit on a busy street, in the open, with many cars around us. I was hit by a minivan the first year we moved to this city. The city is slowly putting in bike lanes, but it just isn't enough if drivers don't pay attention, or respect bicycle riders, no matter who they are. 

This accident adds to our frustrations and nervousness of riding through our own city, where we live. We try to avoid the city streets now, because this accident was way too close of a call. I do hope that the driver is caught, or at least has some sort of remorse, knowing that he left a child to suffer in the road. 

After a few weeks, Skylar's injuries are healing, but he still has no memory of the entire day, much less, his accident. 



If you pass a bicycler, no matter who they are, give them at least six feet of space. Don't crowd them, and definitely don't speed past them. At any given moment that bicycle rider could lose control of their bike and fall into the lane of travel. And, if you come up to a stop sign with a bicycler, don't be a jerk, give them the right of way. Remember, SHARE THE ROAD!

Five simple things

Hello.

The cold has come and now it's gone. We took advantage of the chill in the air for a few days and painted our deck (a post is in the works). We went with a textured surface with color and it really turned out well. We also decided to grab up some textured paint for the front step area, too. We are hoping to get a coat on that soon before the winter season comes. On a different note, today marks one year since we lost our sweet, loving dog Baz. It still hard for us to think about and my favorite and hardest times this past year have been when all three of us gather in the front room with no distractions and just talk about him, or other topics. I really enjoy that time we spend together because it seems to allow us to be more connected. I have Baz to thank for those moments because it really started after he passed away. God we miss him. With Meia and him being gone, and with having them for almost 20 years, our lives have definitely taken a different path now. It's been a hard year, but the healing is happening. And although we are healing from their loss, we will never get over how much they affected our lives and left a permanent mark on our lives. We will live life at a Swell's pace and also never forget how the little things matter so much. Here are five simple things that made this week good.

1. This harvest...


With the Harvest Moon we went ahead of picked and dug all of the vegetables we could gather. We were extremely pleased with the potato harvest and the last of the tomatoes are slowly ripening up. 

2. These crab pots...

Always ready to go and always makes me long for ocean waves.

3. These tablets...

Trying a new way to clean the hard to reach stainless steel water bottles.

4. These organic deodorant...

Giving it a go. We'll see...

5. This Mightnest fix for September...

Still wondering if we like silicone, but we're willing to give it at least give it a chance.

Five simple things

Hello.

So this past weekend we celebrated The Mr.'s birthday; He turned 46 this year! It seems that both of us are slowly aging before we know it, but even though our age shows in numbers it definitely doesn't show in us. We both feel like we are in our late 20s, which we're told is great! The Mr. said every birthday just gets better for him. The Bean and I come up with new ways to celebrate it with him and this year was no different. The Bean will turn 15 on the last day in September, so for the last month we've done nothing but celebrate our birthdays. My mom is the best when it comes to remembering birthdays and she is always prompt with her surprises through the mail. I don't know what we'd do if it wasn't for her birthday surprises to us each year. We all three look forward to them and they are such a treat! On a side note, this week was a pretty stress-filled week and it won't stop yet. The Mr. has to work all weekend and The Bean and I are gearing up for another year of homeschooling soon. I usually give him from August 15, his testing day, to his birthday, September 30, as a "summer break" and then we get back to it on the Monday following. Organizing and getting his school schedule and curriculum done before that time as been quite a chore as he is going into the ninth grade this year. I keep reminding The Mr., The Bean, and myself, "We have this."

Here are five simple things that made this week good.

1. This eye cream gift...

 
I received this firming eye cream as part of the Influenster program and for testing purposes. Although I am not one to use creams like this because of my allergies and how sensitive my eyes are, this one is really nice. I've been using it a week now and I am pleased with the results so far. Most eye creams in the past have made my eyes itch and burn to the point of me rubbing my eyes raw. The Perricone MD firming eye cream feels hydrating and nice when I apply it at night. I have enjoyed it so much that I've been even using a small bit of it during my morning routine, as well. It's holistic and anti-inflammatory. You can purchase the Perricone MD Firming Eye Cream at Sephora, or here

2. This man's birthday...

 
The Mr. had a great time celebrating his birthday. From a homemade chocolate on chocolate birthday cake-his favorite, to The Bean's homemade banner he could run through. It was a good day.

3. This box...


This was the September Yogi Surprise Lifestyle box and it was packed full of great items. I'm not really a huge fan of purple, but that cashmere shaw is amazing! I can't wait to wear it this fall and into the winter months here in Oregon. You can get on the October list here.

4. This sign...


It's really sad that we have to place signs up in businesses to let people know that they are welcome no matter where, who, what, or why. Hate really has no place anywhere!
(Nearly Normal's Gonzo Cuisine) 

5. Autumn changes...

We are looking forward to the changes here because this is the time of year that makes Oregon shine the best! We are looking forward to some great fall hikes.

A few more things:










• Time to clean out and organize your first aid kits

Have a nice weekend.

Five simple things

Hello.

We had a chilly week here in the Valley this week and a few mornings we had to turn on the heater to low just to get the chill out of the air indoors. We also got a few days of heavy rain and it was welcomed with smiles in our house. With our water bills being pretty large already from trying to stay ahead of the heat, the rain gave us a little bit of a break from watering our garden and flowers. This past weekend was our "Downsizing yard sale" as we like to call it. We ended up selling a treadmill, an armoire, a few nightstands, an electric guitar and amp, a secretary's desk that The Bean used for homeschooling for years. I was sad to see the desk go, but we have other options for a desk now-the dinner table-that helps us be more minimal. We also sold a lot of The Mr.'s card collections; Football, baseball, and golf gear. We tried in vain to sell the wooden picnic table, but no one seemed to be interested in it right now. We will try again with our last sale before we finally move into the next phase of our life in a couple of years. We are gearing up to celebrate The Mr.'s birthday this weekend, too!

Here are five simple things that made this week.

1. This sweet doggie...


Because I don't talk about him enough and how great of a doggie friend he really is. 

2. These blue skies...


It's been awhile since we've seen them because of the fires, but this week was nothing but blue skies and a bit of rain, but definitely more blue.

3. This Yogi Surprise box...

This was the August 2018 Yogi Surprise Box and it was all about chakras and clearing out to make room for the new. You can sign up here to get next month's box and get a $10 credit towards your first one with coupon: REFJVDKY1IDAT

4. These balms...


Because with the temperature change lately they have been a lifesaver.

5. This sleeping kitty...


Because nothing is sweeter than a sleeping kitty. Eleven cat has become such a sweetheart and with the loss of Meia recently, we are giving her extra special attention.

A few more things:











Have a nice weekend.